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A Birthday Present Request



Mr. David Chase with the Rebbe
Mr. David Chase with the Rebbe

Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson
Lubavitch
770 Eastern Parkway
Brooklyn, N.Y. 11213

By the Grace of G-d
12th of Nissan, 5741
Brooklyn, N.Y.

Dr. David Tuvia Chase
Hartford, Conn.

Greeting and Blessing:

On the occasion of the forthcoming Yom-Tov Pesach, I send you my prayerful wishes that the festival of our freedom bring you and yours true freedom, freedom from anxiety, material and spiritual, from anything which might distract from serving G-d wholeheartedly and with joy, and to carry over this freedom and joy into the whole year.

Wishing you and yours a Kosher and happy Pesach,

With blessing [sig.]

P.S. It was a pleasure to see you at the Farbrengen on the occasion of the 11th of Nissan, and exchange l’chayim blessings.

Although it is not customary nor proper to ask for a birthday gift, but considering our special relationship, I venture to do so, being confident that you will treat it in the proper spirit.

The birthday gift that I have in mind, which I would consider an honor, as well as a great pleasure, is that you devote a quarter of an hour of your time every weekday morning and dedicate it for the sacred purpose of putting on Tefillin, with the appropriate prayer that goes with it, such as the Shma and the like. The latter need not necessary be recited in Hebrew. If you can manage this in ten minutes, I am prepared to forego five minutes and let it be only ten minutes of your time.

In addition to the thing itself, being one of the greatest Mitzvot, as our Sages said that the whole Torah was compared to it, the Mitzvah of putting on Tefillin on the left arm, facing the heart, and on the head, the seat of the intellect, has the special divine quality of purifying the heart and the mind, emotion and reason, and bring them into the proper balance and harmony. While this is important for every Jew, it is certainly of special significance to one whose activities normally involve a great deal of mental and emotional strain, and it is highly important to have them in proper balance for the utmost degree of efficiency.

The above is of additional significance in your case as chairman of the board of the Rabbinical College of America, in which you have had such remarkable Hatzlachah, with G-d’s help, and have been able to involve many others to follow in your footsteps. Thus, this “birthday gift” would also have a salutary impact on the Rabbinical College, its administration and students, and further widen the channels for all concerned to receive G-d’s blessings materially and spiritually.

I trust that you put on Tefillin every morning in any case, and the reason I am asking the above is only that you should make it a definite point on your calendar, to make sure that your preoccupation with your personal business and the business of the Rabbinical College would not distract you even once to overlook the putting on of the Tefillin. And this will be my reward.

P.P.S. Although in matters of the Rabbinical College, I usually send a copy to our distinguished mutual friend Rabbi Moshe Herson, I am not sending him a copy of this letter, considering its very personal nature. I leave it to you whether you wish to show it to him.

David T. Chase

June 24, 1981

Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson
770 Eastern Parkway
Brooklyn, New York 11213

Dear Rabbi,

I am in receipt of your letter dated 12 of Nissan, 5741. After reading the text of the letter, I was over whelmed by a feeling of joy, pride and humility.

Your reference to our special relationship, your request for a birthday gift, had a most profound effect on me and I hasten to report to you that I proceeded to put on Tefillin in my morning prayers the very next day.

Since this occasion will no doubt change my whole course of life, I will beg your forgiveness for being presumptuous in requesting a birthday present of you.

I will be most honored and privileged if you should obtain for me through your auspices, three sets of Tefillin. One which I will use in my northern home, one for my southern residence and one (a small set) to carry while traveling.

Since I am asking for a gift and yet I do not want to deprive someone from a material necessity which he or she may need much more than I do, I will include with this letter, and with your permission, a check for $1800. The $1800 is “Chai”, and references my prior statement of a new direction in my life.

Your letter was read and re-read by me several times, and two things came to mind. One, the biblical statement by our forefather who uttered the comment of ידעתי בני ידעתי,1 which I interpret to mean that not only did our forefather direct his thoughts to the recipient of his comment but he also knew well the person he was talking to.

My spontaneous response to your request paralleled this biblical episode and my comment of (“Please forgive my presumptuousness) “ידעתי אבא ידעתי”.2

My second thought and again, for the third time, I will beg your forgiveness for my presumptuousness, is purely in the form of a question which, if you would be kind enough, I would like an answer to.

Your letter is composed in two parts. One part makes reference to your blessing on occasion of Yom-Tov Pesach and for which I and my family are most grateful.

The second part consists of a P.S., which makes reference to your request of a birthday gift and to my putting on Teffilin. If I may paraphrase your letter, that “the putting on of Tefillin is as our Sages said that the whole Torah was compared to it, the Mitzvah of putting on Tefillin on the left arm, facing the heart, and on the head, the seat of the intellect, has the special Divine quality of purifying the heart and the mind, emotion and reason, and bring them into the proper balance and harmony.”

In my humble opinion then, the second part of your letter has much greater significance than the first part. Why then was that portion which carried so much substance included under P.S. rather than at the first portion of the letter?

Dear Rabbi, I am dictating this letter on the third day of my putting on Teffilin, and I guess perhaps that my curiosity in prying into what could be just pure circumstance is looking to an intellectual or preconceived reason, and based further on the statement in your letter that the head, the seat of the intellect, has the special Divine quality of purifying the heart and the mind, emotion and reason, is instrumental in my asking these questions.

In conclusion, I am most grateful for your letter and I will do my best not to overlook putting on Teffilin in the future.

May the Al-might bless you with continued good health and well being and may you continue to spread wisdom, kindness and good will1ess to your constituency,

Gratefully yours,

David Chase

Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson
Lubavitch
770 Eastern Parkway
Brooklyn, N.Y. 11213

By the Grace of G-d
Rosh Chodesh Tammuz, 5741
Brooklyn, N.Y.

Dr. David Tuvia Chase
Hartford, Conn.

Greeting and Blessing:

Many thanks for your letter of June 24, with enclosures. I should have acknowledged it immediately, except that I was waiting for the Tefillin, which are accompanied by this letter.

Needless to say, since the Tefillin are a gift, my first thought was not to cash the check. I decided, however, that when a Jew desires to give Tzedoko,3 he should be encouraged, not deprived of the Zechus4 of it. Accordingly, I have earmarked it for a sacred cause, as per enclosed receipt. May the Zechus of the Tzedoko bring you and yours additional blessings from HaShem5 in all your affairs, particularly in the matters about which you wrote with such heartfelt sentiments, of which more is no doubt contained in between the lines.

Now, to answer your question in reference to my previous letter, namely, why the Pesach blessings came first, and the subject of the Tefillin second, and in a P.S.

The answer, in plain terms, is that the subject of Pesach had precedence because of its specific timeliness. Moreover, it was entirely within my prerogative, whereas the matter of Tefillin was a request on my part and depended on your good will and resolve.

In a more significant sense (which will also explain the P.S. instead of a separate letter on such an important subject as you well recognize), the order corresponds to the Torah, where the Mitzvah of Tefillin is introduced in connection with, and following, the exhortation concerning the remembrance of Yetzias Mitzrayim6 and the annual celebration of Pesach. Thereupon the Torah declares: “And it (Yetzias Mitzrayim) shall be for a sign unto you on your hand and for a reminder between your eyes, in order that G-d’s Torah be in your mouth; for with a strong hand HaShem brought you out of Mitzrayim" (Exod. 13:9).

In this section (Exod. 13: 1-10), which is one of the four Parshiyos7 contained in the Tefillin “houses,” the Torah emphasizes that although Yetzias Mitzrayim is to be celebrated annually in the spring month for seven days (eight in the Diaspora) as Chag HaMatzos,8 the event should be remembered every day in a tangible way, through the Mitzvah of Putting on Tefillin. What is the connection?

As I mentioned briefly in my previous letter, it is explained in our sacred sources, especially in Chabad, that the putting on Tefillin stimulates the proper balance and harmony between the heart and the mind, emotion and reason. This is the way by which a person can overcome his natural constraints (his “inner Mitzrayim9) – constraints which an imbalance between the emotional and intellectual faculties would further aggravate.

The terms “balance” and “harmony” imply a blend, not the exclusion of one or the other. Emotions uncontrolled could carry a person to extremes, while pure intellect is by nature completely detached and “cold,” lacking vitality. Only when the two are blended in the proper balance, the person attains inner harmony and can function most efficiently and productively. Such a person is inwardly unfettered and spiritually free.

It may be wondered how these two opposite and contrary paramount human faculties, personified by the brain and heart, each called a “sovereign” organ ruling all the other organs of the body, can be reconciled and brought into true and lasting harmony.

The answer is that the Creator has given man the capacity to achieve such harmony, and He has made certain that the Jewish people, who had been chosen to receive the Torah and spread the light of G-dliness on earth, would have the wherewithal to achieve this balance and harmony through the Torah and Mitzvos, particularly the Mivtzah of Tefillin.

The historic event of Yetzias Mitzrayim brought freedom to our Jewish people from bondage, both physical and spiritual, through attaching themselves to HaShem and His servant Moshe, culminating in Kabbolas haTorah.10 It is the forerunner and counterpart of the personal “Yetzias Mitzrayim” of every individual Jew. This is why the Mivtzah of Tefillin is so central in Jewish life.

To conclude with a prayerful wish based on the Torah principle that “G-d’s reward is in kind, but in a most generous measure.” When a Jew makes the effort to break through his natural limitations, and succeeds with HaShem’s help, His blessings come in a similar manner, transcending the natural order, so that the Parnosso11 exceeds all expectations, one’s health and vigor is inordinately better than the birth certificate would normally indicate, and so on. May this be so with you and yours in the fullest measure.

With esteem and blessing,

[Sig.]


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FOOTNOTES
1. =I knew my son, I knew.
2. =I knew my father, I knew.
3. =charity.
4. =merit.
5. =G-d.
6. =the going out of Egypt.
7. =chapters.
8. =The holiday of Matzos.
9. =metzarim, constraints, boundaries.
10. =The receiving of the Torah.
11. =livelihood.

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